Find a Penpal at the Penpal Café


Penpaling is fun and swapping is extremely fun! Want to penpal but don’t have anyone to write? Why not join our penpal classifieds by listing your own information, you can also grab a penpal here if you don’t want to wait!

Remember, however, to execute caution when contacting new friends and sharing personal information. Most importantly, have fun and make new friends.

Please post your information here if you are interested in gaining penpals and meeting other Miseducated visitors.


Swap List

Tran Hong Nhi | 26 | female | Vietnam | email
Hobbies Waching news, listening to music ( pop, rock , rap, country music..),comic, action or kungfu films, fashion
About Just call me Nhi. I am 26 years old. i am living in Ho chi Minh city of Vietnam. i am single, attractive, friendly,responsible and good hearted. i want to make friends with the ones who have something common with me. i strongly believe that Good freindship is a good background for further relation.
I wish you all best health and success in life.

Bali | 20 | female | Taiwan | email
I am searching for a pen pal in English and Japanese. Nice to meet you!

Lana | 25 | female | Taiwan | email
Hobbies travel, make friends, music, shop,……….
About Hi, My name is Lana^^ I am a 25 year-old girl from Taiwan. I am here for looking for penpals who are really sincerely and can make long-term friendship with me, not just write one or two letters > < I know nowadays people like to use e-mails instead of letters to communicate with each other, especailly e-mails is faster and convenient for people. But I still prefer snail mails,and I really hope I can find people who like it,too. Anyway, I like to write by snail mails,and e-mails toghter. So, if you are interested , just write to me!! I think I am a good penpal^^I ok, see you I am looking forward to hearing from you soon!!

Lisa | 23 | female | England | email
Hobbies penpalling, reading, listening to music, photography, crafts
About Hiya i am looking for female only snail mail pals please email me with an introduction xxx

Natalija | 25 | female | England | email
Hobbies reading,cooking,shopping
About I enjoy reading,writing poetry and prose,listening to the music,taking photos,travelling,cooking and shopping. I am collecting DVDs,CDs,angels,souvenirs from all around the world,hair/scarf pins,badges,autobiography/memoir books. I love chocolate and candies.
I’d love to exchange letters and little packages with fun and cute stuff.Getting to know my pen pals and sharing our thoughts is amazing experience.Age is not restricted,but no males please.I’m looking for a life-long friendship.


Please let us know your name, location, age (18+), hobbies and a bit about yourself to be published here!

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  • Reply Chelsea Ann 01/30/2009 at 8:55 pm

    Chelsea Ann – 23 – female – USA [email protected]

    Hobbies ~ dressing up, crafting, blogging, shopping ^^

    I love the snail mail idea! I am a very good pin pal if you don’t mind terrible spelling – eeek. I already have a most wonderful friend from China who I correspond with almost daily. And I just sent her a Valentines.
    I am married and currently we are trying to get pregnant! Oooops that is suppose to be a secret…. nobody tell anyone ~ I love all things pink and I adore vintage. Girls only! Sorry boys~ making new friends is such a treat ~ especially friends from different backgrounds… it is so fun to learn new things.

    Chelsea Ann

  • Reply Crystal 02/04/2009 at 11:05 pm

    I wanna do it! I have tones of Sanrio stationary I never get to use.

  • Reply Chiquita 02/10/2009 at 5:51 pm

    [email protected]

    I have been dying to have a penpal but anytime I find one, they never write back after one letter. I would love to find a penpal who is willing to commit to having a long term friendship. It doesn’t matter where the person is from but I would only like a female penpal. (sorry!!) I love to send little fun gifts and love getting to know new people! (^.^)
    I love watching movies, reading, playing on my wii, taking pictures. I guess I’m pretty much your normal 22 year old who just spends her free time having fun!

  • Reply Ang 02/26/2009 at 3:29 pm

    Everyone seem to only want girl penpals. This made me curious – do guys make bad penpals? Or are they just by default going to try to be more than penpals? I mean penpals generally never meet up etc – or am I wrong?

    I’ve never done the penpal thing so please share your thoughts!

  • Reply amberrenee 03/02/2009 at 8:26 pm

    I’m going to guess people want female penpals so they are more likely to share cute stationary, stickers, doodles and girly secrets.. whereas having a male penpal must be another experience all together!

    I’ve even met some of my ‘old skool’ penpals after a long time of friendship and am close with them to this day. My best friend of 13 years was actually once my penpal. Whoever you choose as a penpal, have fun!

  • Reply Cuckold 03/05/2009 at 6:22 pm

    What a great article. I stumbled into your site when I was searching for movies and I must say I really enjoyed your post. Will be back to check more out in the future!…

  • Reply Jem 03/11/2009 at 2:43 pm

    Jem – 23 – Female – Twin Cities, MN – [email protected]

    My name is Jem, I am looking for a penpal, I haven’t had a penpal since I used to run FruitsyPenpals
    back in ’04.. but i’ve desperately been in need of some mail-love to
    send and receive, and to flatter someone and their mailbox with the
    cute stationary that I’ve received in the past and have yet to use.

    To get an idea of my life or my personality you can check out some of the pictures on my flickr
    account [ ] or on my blog [ ] and I also make music which I
    post a selection of it on myspace at [ ].

    I’m 23 years old, I live in Minnesota- my dream place!. I live
    with my boyfriend and one other roommate. I work @ Macy’s [ a department store] and have a 3 month year old Bichon Frise named Daria… I love
    apples and anything cute and food related, i dislike hello kitty.. I’m into reading interesting books, people with big imaginations, hair-bows and bright make-up, rainbow everything, school supplies, vegan cooking
    vintage forms to play music [ ala tape decks ] , and too much else.

    I listen to a lot of music, but lately I’ve been more into : Sean Lennon / The Velvet Underground & Nico / She & Him / The Beatles / CLaw Like Things / Marvin Gaye / Lou Reed / Fiona Apple / The Bird and the Bee

    And many others.. I collect cassette tapes, and I only own a Tape deck in my house, otherwise I listen to music on my computer, because I don’t have a working cd player, even on my computer, so I’d love to have a penpal who is interested in sending mixed tapes.

    I’d consider myself a very creative being, I used to make clothes for my ebay bizzness from 2003-2006, although I primarily made only clothes for my bizzness I’ve dipped my hands in almost every creative medium that I can get my hands in.

    My current obsession is making zines, I have three issues of my zine [Lolita] out currently, which I would be willing to send to whomever I become penpals with so I could get some honest feedback.

    My favorite color scheme right now is [Red,Black,White]. I like modern patterns and clean lines a lot.

    Okay that was a lot, but hopefully my new penpal out there can appreciate long letters!


  • Reply Sarah 03/22/2009 at 8:49 pm

    My name’s Sarah & I’m 24. I live in the UK, down on the south coast.
    I’d love a penpal! Especially someone from a different continent as that makes it a bit cooler!
    I’m interested in many things: anything to do with the sixties, especially the hippy movement (I’m kind of a closet hippy myself!)
    I read a lot, and watch a lot of movies. I’m also interested in history & art, I’m currently studying for an archaeology degree part time whilst working at the local hospital.
    I’d love to able to actually write (ie. snail mail) to someone, and swap little things etc.
    Anyhoo, that’s a little bit about me.

    Hope to hear from you soon

  • Reply Christa 03/23/2009 at 7:11 pm

    Christa – 21 – Female – Ohio, USA – [email protected]

    Hobbies: watching movies, listening to music, writing, reading, photography, sewing, web design, drawing

    My name is Christa I’m 21 and I’ve lived in Ohio for most of my life. My boyfriend and I have been talking about moving to Japan for a month after we get married (within the next 5 years). So I’ve been wanting to learn Japanese a little better then I know it now. I love finding new music as well as films. No matter where I go I always have my camera with me, so I’m always taking pictures. I also love fashion! I like learning about different cultures as well. I’m looking for someone to be an E-Mail pen pal, but I would LOVE to find someone who would like to be a Snail-Mail pal so we can write and send small things to each other.

  • Reply Latif Adam 06/17/2009 at 9:50 am

    How are you and your family? I hope every thing is fine as the way you wanted it to be.
    By the way i really like your profile and i am happy for that.
    I want to be your best friend if you dont mind. My name is Amdi and i am a
    graphic designer.I really like to be your friend.I hope you will not hurt me.
    I will send you my pictures in my next letter ok.I like snail mail too and you?
    Here is my address:
    Amdi Adam
    Box se 2313
    Suame Kumasi
    my mail:[email protected]
    +233 246457046call me
    Take good care.Hope to hear from you soon.

  • Reply salparadise 08/18/2009 at 2:14 am

    I’m Steph, a 21 year old who lives in Ohio and studies Anthropology and Italian and loves it 🙂

    I absolutely love to travel and learn about all places and cultures. I’m a nature fanatic. I’m open to a lot of different musical sounds, I love the Jack White and the Beatles and the Black Keys along with jazz and folk music. I’m a hippie and a beat at heart. I love to read and my favorites are Vonnegut, Kerouac (hence my username), Ken Kesey and Hunter S. Thompson. I’m always up for new ideas. I’m a huge nerd and too proud of it. Video [/computer] games are fun. Sketching and writing stories are my favorite pastimes.
    & most of all, I really just want to be friends with everyone 🙂 Write me!: [email protected]

    “`But I don’t want to go among mad people,’ Alice remarked.
    `Oh, you can’t help that,’ said the Cat: `we’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad.’
    `How do you know I’m mad?’ said Alice.
    `You must be,’ said the Cat, `or you wouldn’t have come here.'”
    -Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland

  • Reply baby4u1985 08/20/2009 at 8:27 pm

    My name is miss julliet i saw your profile today and became intrested in you,i will also like to know you the more,and i want you to send an email to my email address so i can give you my picture for you to know whom i am.Here is my email address ( [email protected])I believe we can move from here I am waiting.
    Remeber the distance or colour does not matter but love matters alot in life
    Miss julliet
    [email protected]

  • Reply BooBooMonster 09/01/2009 at 6:01 pm

    Ashley-21-Female-Pittsburgh [email protected]

    Im looking for someone to just talk to and write old fashioned letters with. Im a shy, yet very outgoing dreamer with a big heart. Im obsessed with tattoos, colors and i have the biggest sweet tooth. I enjoy listening to live music, and discovering new artist with a different sound. Halloween is one of my favorite holidays, I love dressing up and pretending. I have experienced different life altering things, and would love talk about it with someone who also has. this is just a few about me, If your interesting in being my penpal please shoot me an email ^_^
    Thanks and best regards,

  • Reply Zahirul. 10/24/2009 at 12:36 pm


    I am Zahirul,male for Bangladesh.I would like to make good friendship with all over the world.I am doing here business.I am waiting friendship reply.


    E-mail : [email protected]

  • Reply Bee 11/03/2009 at 10:49 pm

    Wow this is exciting! I haven’t had a penpal in years!

    My name is Sam or Bee if you prefer. I live in New Brunswick, Canada and I’m a 22 year old graphic design and game animation student. I’m a bit of a dreamer, I love to meet people and it’s been a long time since I have been a part of a net community and I would love to make some friends.
    My e-mail is [email protected] 😀

  • Reply Amanda 12/22/2009 at 2:31 pm

    Hi, my name is Amanda. I would love to have new penpals (especially penpals who love swapping!). I love earrings — if you love earrings also or would just love to have me as a new friend that would be awesome. Just email me if you want my mailing address!

  • Reply Kiyimba shafiki 01/01/2010 at 3:53 pm

    Hi iam shafiki augandan living in i like penpals from Usa england canada and uganda.Name kiyimba shafiki aged 25Yrs emil [email protected]

  • Reply Lydie 01/02/2010 at 5:36 am

    Hey guys !
    My name is Lydie and i’m French i’m 21 y’o! 😀

    I search an american penpal, because i love USA!
    I love Fashion, Photography, Shopping, Blogging, Graphic Design, Reading…

    e-mails or letters it doesn’t matter i love both ! 😀

    Contact me at [email protected] 😀

  • Reply Natalie 02/22/2010 at 8:08 am

    Natalie – 18- St.Vincent and the Grenadines

    Hobbies: Reading, Drawing, Shopping, Hanging with friend, Meeting new ppl etc

    Favourite Author: Nora Roberts

    Favourite Music: R&B, Gospel, Hip Hop, Dancehall, Soca, Raggae

    Ok….hopefully i’ll actually meet penpals here on this site (females) other site were not as i thought ppl were friendly ….anyway.

    My name is Natalie and im from a small Caribean country called St.Vincent and the Grenadines. I would love to make new friends who have interest in building a life-longlastin friendship. If you’re the type that doesnt reply after the first letter then please dont waste my time. Would love it if as friend we could exchange items but that’s optional if u dont want to them i’m honestly ok with that. so if you’re interested email me.

    Thanks Take care y’all :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

  • Reply Empress_4life 02/24/2010 at 7:46 pm

    I would really love to talk to Natalija 25 -female- England. You seem like a really nice person email me at [email protected]

  • Reply Ashli Jade 03/16/2010 at 8:53 pm

    Ashli Jade/18/California

    Hobbies: Guitar/Blogging/Reading/Audio Engineering/Youth Ministry/Make-Up/Being all artsy-fartsy
    Music: Yes, please. I work at a music venue and have come to like most genres over them time I’ve spent there. I’m digging on Jazz right now.
    TV Shows: I’m not too big on the idiot box
    Favorite Movies: Alice in Wonderland (1951), Dan in Real Life, most French movies, Two for the Road.
    Favorite Reads: I’m really into F. Scott Fitzgerald right now, but I absolutely adore Chuck Palahnuik as well.

    I wish I could say I was from somwhere exciting and buzzing, but I’ve found myself smack dab in the middle of suburbia ’bout two hours from San Francisco finishing up my last year of high school. I would love to make a new friend or two, snail mail, email, secret santa, I like doing all of that. It’s such a pleasant little surprise in the mailbox. I assume we all speak English, which is fabulous as it is my native tongue, but je peux parle francais aussi. I love people who continue writing after the first few letters.

    You can reach me at [email protected] 😆 😛 😈

  • Reply Heather 04/08/2010 at 3:47 pm

    Heather | 19 | female | Canada | [email protected]

    Hello everyone!
    My name is Heather, im 19 and Im from Canada. I used to have penpals however I stopped writing when I graduated from highschool. I have a ton of stationery, ive been collecting it for evaa! I would love a penpal who would be interested in swapping. Ill tell you a bit about myself. I am very artistic, I L-O-V-E shopping and going out with my friends. I consider myself to be quite girly, and I enjoy making things look cute. Im constantly decorating my room, and changing things around. In my spare time I usually paint, listen to music or BAKE!( Im taking cake deco classes at the moment) Im also easy to get along with.
    If your interested, send me an email ^ ^


  • Reply Deszarai 05/20/2010 at 4:26 pm

    Hello, My name is Deszarai, I am 17 years old and Pregnant. I am looking for male penpals that don’t mind talking to pregnant girls.
    Please email me at deszaraiaaron#hotmail. Please tell me your age and about yourself and I would prefer a picture. If the picture looks fake I will not reply.

  • Reply Alyson L 07/07/2010 at 5:56 am

    So much to say, I better just keep it down to the basics.

    I love learning about people and will never get bored of reading something someone writes me! From Opinions, to Epic stories, to venting about a crush, craft Ideas, favorites, how your day went, pet peeves, fears.. anything! I love mail. paper. envelopes. writing. realness.
    Things that consume my thoughts (in a good way):
    Crafts, live music, mail, faxes, colors, art, making clothes, wonderland, thinking for myself and people who think for themselves, decor, cute things, touring!

    I’m 26, I do merch for bands on tour, and I never want to grow up.
    here is some stuff about me:

    Email me if you wanna be penpals

  • Reply tewodros gidissa 07/15/2010 at 3:26 am

    hey,my name is tewodros(u can call me teddy)&i’m frm ethiopia n’ this is ma firist time to seek a penpal,i like to li..

  • Reply Skarleth 07/23/2010 at 7:59 pm

    Hi everybody my name is skarleth im from Nicaragua a small country in the center of America, i’m 23 years old and i love this blog,i like to have a penpal but also like that someone explain me really well how it works.

    I like really romantic films, i like anime and read manga and i adore all Jane Austen books, also like really cute thing and i must i’m a little bit hippie, a little bit geek and a little bit nerd.

    I like to meet people from everywhere and make longlastings frienships.

    If you are intrested contact me at my e-mail [email protected]

    ps: sorry if something does not make sense but i’m native spanish speaker.

    i cant exciting

  • Reply bita 10/03/2010 at 5:33 pm

    hi everybody…
    how is everything?
    please be a good penpal for me… of course,it is my first time…
    my name is Bita and my Email:[email protected]

  • Reply grace 10/25/2010 at 11:22 pm

    I am a graduate student in China,and I am 22 years old. let’s share the wonderful things in life together and sad things will be ok either. I want to make friends with you!

  • Reply mike randy 11/08/2010 at 10:05 pm

    Hi, my name is Mike. I would love to have new penpals,

    [email protected]

  • Reply Kamala 04/07/2011 at 7:21 pm

    Kamala (Kaw-Muh-Law) | 18, almost 19 | US | Female

    Hello! I’ve never had a penpal but I’ve always wanted one.
    I’m an outgoing person, but lately I’ve been feeling kind of sad because a lot of things going on in my life so I thought that maybe having a penpal could help me.
    I love meeting new people and writing is one of my passions!
    So, if you’re interested email me! [email protected]

  • Reply Sarah Joslin 04/12/2011 at 1:48 pm

    looking for a guy pen pal who speaks english. i’m 17 years old and live in the USA…please contact me at [email protected] if interested!! 🙂

  • Reply Samantha Ewasiuk 08/15/2011 at 4:23 am

    😉 😐 🙂 😛 😮 :mrgreen: 😆 😀

    Name: Samantha
    Age: 20
    Nick Names: Sam Sammy Bongo Cookie
    City: Edmonton
    Country: Canada
    Birthday: Jan 2 1991
    Work: Part Time Babysitter
    Family: Mom Dad Brother Pets
    Pets: 8
    Type Of Pets: 2 Cats 1 Mouse 1 Gerbil 1 Rabbit 1 Hamster 2 Red Belly Newts I LOVE THEM ALL
    Languages: English Only
    Languages Learning: Japanese French Chinese Ukrainian
    E mail: [email protected]
    Status: Single Bisexual Female
    Gender: Female
    Hobbies: Art Craft Drawing Reading Video Games Cooking Baking History Other Stuff.

    I love watching TV I spend most my time watching tV but I am not clue to it like a little kid I do other stuff too but here some shows I like watching,
    Crime Shows, CSI All, With Out A Trace, Criminal Minds, That So Raven, Suite Life Of Zack And Cody, Phil Of The Future, Futurama, Ned Declassified School Survival Guide, Pokemon Digimon Hamtaro Pucca Phineas And Ferb, Shake It Up, Pair Of Kings, Fish Hooks, Lizzie Mcguire, Tow And A Half Men, iCarly, Being Ian, Fairly Odd Parents, The Garfield Show, Kid VS Kat, What I Like About You, Spongbob Squarpants, 10 Things I Hate About You, 8 Simple Rules, And so much more.
    Now we move onto Anime because I am a huge anime fan big big big big big big big time so here are some but not all,
    Pretty Cure, Case Closed, Naruto, Bleach, DN.Angel, Hell Girl Shuffle, FullMetal Alchemist, Dragon Ball Z, Blue Dragon, Haruhi Suzumiya, InuYasha, Lucky Star, Death Note, Karin, AzuManga Daioh, One Piece, Vocloid, Sailor Moon, Card Captor Sakura, Tsubasa, Bottle Fairies, Air, Chobits, And so very much more Anime.

    Now onto movies I LOVE watching movies so very very very very much so much fun to pass the time big big big big big time,
    My Neighbor Totoro, Castle In The Sky, Kiki’s Delivery Service, Whisper Of The Heart, Spirited Away, The Cat Returns, Howl’s Moving Castle, Ponyo, I love Hayao Miyazaki Films there amazing big big big big time. Pokemon, Digimon, UP, Tangled, Jumanji, Monster House, Tinker Bell, Peter Pan, An American Tail, Astro Boy, Alice In Wounder Land, Lilo And Stitch, Enchanted, Micky And Friends, There are so much more movies I love horror movies I love movies with animals zombies vampires sharks in them also with animals that are not normal size.

    Now for Bands and Music I like sorry if it is not too much now hard to really think,
    Japanese Chinese Koren Pop J-Pop J-Pop Rock Trance Techno, Bands: Perfume, Lady Gaga, Simple Plan, Green Day, Pink, 2NE1, 4Minute, SNSD, Girl’s Generation, Kara, Wounder Girls, BigBang, G-Dragon, F(X), After School,
    For Books I read most Manga books like most Shojo Manga books I love them best of all, I also read poem books I love poems I also read family kid books a lot too I read books on History and about the world I love learning a lot. I read books on Animals I love learning about animals too there so amazing and cute most of the time. I read some teen books true story books and crime books sometime, I even read cooking and baking books a lot love them best too.

    Video Games I love love love love video games there a big part of my life I love playing them I love all kinds of games and I am a gamer girl so kinda of a nerd and a tomboy but here some games, Pokemon, Digimon, Hamtaro, Hello Kitty, Harvest Moon, Final Fantasy, Kingdom Hearts, Zelda, Sonic, Mario, Cooking Mama, Chrono Cross, Chrono Trigger, The Sims, Diner Dash, Dark Cloud, Dragon Guest, Star Ocean, Rogue Galaxy, Disgaea, Shadow Hearts, Xenosaga,Grandia,Wild Arms, Shining Force, Magna Carta, Ar Tonelico, Mana Khemia, Tales Games, And so much more video games.
    How Many Pen-Pals do you have?: I have 22+ but want more hehe.
    How Many Do You Want?: I want so very very very much ^_^
    Email or Snail Mail?: Both is good with me but I love Snail Mail more but Email is still really really good too
    How Long Are Your Letters?: Mmmmm sometime long sometime short it really depends what is happening in my life and what I have to say
    How Long Does It Take For You To Reply To A Letter?: Mmmm not long when I get a letter I mail it out the next day unless it is a holiday or weekend
    What Sex Do You Want Them To Be?: Does not matter with me at all as long as there not looking for money or love
    Where Do You Want Them To Be From?: Any where in the world is ok with me
    What Age Do You Want Them To Be?: Any age is ok with me as long as men are not over 25
    What Kind Of Pen-Pal Are You Looking For?: Any really as long as they can be a true good great friend and really cool fun to talk with and learn from someone who can be a good friend and be my best friend someone who I can get along with.

  • Reply Princess 11/23/2011 at 9:39 am

    Hi!i’m princess a girl with17yrs from Africa,i’m seeking of a penpal,i just want one to became good friends. mail me on [email protected] waiting for you

  • Reply shema great 01/13/2012 at 4:38 pm

    hi everybody, am 20, a guy from rwanda that is in Africa, and i just wanted someone that i can trust, someone we can be free to talk to each other. thank you. my email is [email protected]

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